{"id":1392,"date":"2019-11-26T18:48:20","date_gmt":"2019-11-26T17:48:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/slub-humanistyczny.pl\/?p=1392"},"modified":"2021-08-21T08:05:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-21T06:05:57","slug":"polish-scottish-weddings-kilts-handfasting-and-quiach","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/slub-humanistyczny.pl\/en\/polish-scottish-weddings-kilts-handfasting-and-quiach\/","title":{"rendered":"Polish-Scottish weddings \u2013 kilts, handfasting and quiach!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Polish-Scottish weddings have a specific and quite unique atmosphere. Even though our cultures seem to be so different in many ways, there\u2019s a special bond that becomes visible especially during weddings, when both sides seem to find every opportunity to make a toast! But alcohol finds its way into the party long before the first toast\u2026<\/p>\r\n

Scottish people have found the way to deal with stress at weddings \u2013 they simply bring in some liquor very early! It\u2019s also an opportunity to try out Polish specialties before the wedding party, such as our beer. So remember \u2013 future Polish-Scottish Brides and Grooms \u2013 be sure to provide high quality liquor for your guests (if you know that your Guests love their drink J)! Below you can find an example of such stress-relieving prop during a ceremony:<\/p>\r\n

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First and foremost \u2013 slow wedding<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

I\u2019m going to tell you the story of Paulina and Ian\u2019s wedding. Out of all the ceremonies I have conducted, this was fairly special. It was a hot day and the Groom decided to look for salvation in a cold pint of beer that was brought to him by his Best Man (who also had his own pint). Such \u201cslow-wedding\u201d approach is a great thing \u2013 after all it\u2019s your special day. You\u2019ve been planning this day for a long time, so why not enjoy it in your own way, as you like it best?<\/p>\r\n

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An almost indispensable component of every Scottish ceremony is the entrance of the Bride (or the Couple together) accompanied by music played by a bagpiper. Future Brides and Grooms \u2013 if you\u2019re still not convinced if you should include bagpipes in your ceremony \u2013 trust me, it\u2019s worth it!<\/p>\r\n

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When we begin the ceremony you can certainly feel the emotions, especially the positive ones. Both the Guests and the happy Couple are expecting to have great amount of fun, and are happy to be where they are. Even if they\u2019re a bit stressed, they let emotions take the wheel and enjoy every second without controlling everything that happens. That\u2019s exactly what happened at the wedding of Ania and Graeme. Although their bulldogs got a bit more attention that the Couple itself\u2026<\/p>\r\n

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Scottish thriftiness?<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

During Paulina and Ian\u2019s ceremony I talked a bit about the differences between a Polish and a Scottish \u00a0wedding. I might have mentioned something about Scottish thriftiness\u2026 and I got booed at by theG. Trust me, I could not have expected a better reaction! Everyone was relieved when I explained that we\u2019re in Poland, and everyone is partying at the expense of the Couple (so party hard!).<\/p>\r\n

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Ania and Graeme decided to incorporate a Scottish tradition into the ceremony \u2013 after the vows, the Couple and their parents drank whisky from a vessel called a quiach. It symbolizes the connection of two families.<\/p>\r\n

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Handfasting \u2013 an often used element in Polish-Scottish humanist weddings <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

Another ritual that is often present at Polish-Scottish ceremonies is handfasting, which is done during the vows. It\u2019s a symbolic way to show that the Bride and Groom from now on are tied together for the rest of their lives. Agnieszka and Craig were one of the Couples that decided to include handfasting in their ceremony.<\/p>\r\n

Additionally, Couples usually sign a humanist wedding certificate.<\/p>\r\n

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Every year I conduct more and more Polish-Scottish weddings. I prepare not only mentally, I also add a small element to my outfit \u2013 a tartan bowknot \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\r\n

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All in all\u2026 aren\u2019t Scots simply the best?<\/p>\r\n

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See Polish version here: Polsko-szkockie \u015bluby \u2013 kilty, wi\u0105zanie szarf\u0105 i quiach<\/a><\/p>\r\n

Pictures from Ania and Graeme’s wedding: Gabriel Gmurczyk – fotograf<\/a><\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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Polish-Scottish weddings have a specific and quite unique atmosphere. Even though our cultures seem to be so different in many ways, there\u2019s a special bond that becomes visible especially during weddings, when both sides seem to find every opportunity to make a toast! But alcohol finds its way into the party long before the first […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":963,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[21],"class_list":["post-1392","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","tag-eng"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/slub-humanistyczny.pl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1392","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/slub-humanistyczny.pl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/slub-humanistyczny.pl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/slub-humanistyczny.pl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/slub-humanistyczny.pl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1392"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/slub-humanistyczny.pl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1392\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/slub-humanistyczny.pl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/963"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/slub-humanistyczny.pl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1392"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/slub-humanistyczny.pl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1392"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/slub-humanistyczny.pl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1392"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}